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September 14, 2007

From Daily Dose of Queer (Civil Unions and Couples Credit)

Filed under: Lesbian & Gay Rights, Politics, Republicans — diane @ 7:57 pm

Civil unions, which have been adopted mainly for same-sex couples, are still in their infancy in the United States. There is plenty of controversy surrounding this concept, particularly from the conservative point of view, and only four U.S. states currently recognize them (VT, NH, NJ, CN). Political issues aside, however, there are a few implications of a civil union that many people simply don’t consider.When two people get married, the federal (and consequently the state) government recognizes their credit profiles as joined. The two individuals might have radically different credit scores, but they share the same debt, and one partner’s mistakes might negatively affect the couple for loans and lines of credit. With civil unions, however, credit issues become muddled because the federal government does not recognize the union as legal.

In 1996, the federal government passed the Defense of Marriage Act, which states that even though individual states can adopt Civil Union laws, other states are not obligated to recognize them and they are not legally entitled to the same rights as married couples. For example, if you enter into a civil union in Vermont, which began allowing them in 2000, you might find that your situation changes if you move to Texas or Arkansas.

Read more: http://www.dailydoseofqueer.com/2007/09/

June 20, 2007

From: Deliver Us from Weasles (Pride Weekend)

Filed under: Lesbian & Gay Rights, Politics, Pop Culture, Sex & Sexuality — genia @ 11:40 pm

Pride Weekend

We went to not only the Parade, but the Festival, and the God-des and She show the night before. And had houseguests. And installed most of the Marm0leum. It was quite a weekend. And much fun.

On returning from Pride I had that confusing feeling where after being around queers all weekend I started thinking everyone I saw was gay and had to reorient myself. Odd feeling it is, to come back to the real world. One that is not so friendly, not so vibrant and colorful, but still a very good world. But because I feel so much free-er in Portland, Pride can only be so exciting. Not like in NC, where Pride was our one chance all year to hold hands in public. I think if mwt and I were not so out of the habit we could hold hands in many places in Portland. But how sad is that, that holding hands is something we worry about? Ah, the world has a long way to go on this.

But what is pride weekend without a partially finished project? The Marm0luem was much harder (physically and mathematically) to install than we thought and it was a bit much to undertake on Pride weekend. So I am exhausted. And sore from all the flooring. And the dog has been neglected and discovered a way to escape the yard on Sunday and went missing and mwt and I freaked out. Then he came back, but we could not figure out where he had been or how he got out.

So this morning, in my exhaustion I let Bentley out in the back-yard and starting working on a computer problem and then realized what I done. So I run outside in my bathrobe, my crazy morning hair, and mwt’s bedroom slippers and start calling for him. And I think I hear my neighbor. So I go around front and there is my very nice neighbor holding my very bad dog.

Then he releases Bentley’s collar and instead of coming to me he runs across the street and jumps on a little boy walking with his Dad. And I have to run after him in my bathrobe and slippers. All I was missing was curlers in my hair.

Now I feel like the trashiest person ever. Bad enough that we were outside running the table saw on flooring all weekend, and had people in and out of our house at all hours, now we have a half-dressed crazy woman running down the street after her uncontrollable dog. We are “those people.”

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